has to go through grueling years of study to become a doctor,
to become a good partner in marriage, we have no training. No
wonder, it mostly ends In disaster.
not enter a marriage with the attitude that if it does not
work out, you can have a divorce.
a commitment to yourself that you will make it work.
always believes that it is the other's responsibility to take
care of his/her needs. One has to remember to have realistic
has to learn and tolerate each other's shortcomings and moods.
Do not say cruel things that you may regret later.
to say, "something is wrong", rather than., "It
is your fault!"
wisely — say clearly what you want, what you feel. The other
must always read that "you care" underneath what you
are asking for.
is not necessary that in good marriages all disagreements are
resolved. It is not necessary that satisfied couples spend
almost all their free time together. Spouses may pursue
separate, though clean, interests, then come together to pool
a marriage, it is important that couples set aside time
regularly to be together — otherwise, it is easy to lose
touch and grow apart.
as time passes one often observes that husbands become more
sensitive and wives more independent.
relationship can still be good despite the fact that there are
things about your spouse that you will never like. After all,
the perfect husband or wife just does not exist.
am reminded of a story. A man grew old looking for the perfect
woman. A friend once met him and asked him, 'What happened
buddy, didn't you find the perfect woman you were looking
old man replied, that he had but unfortunately, she was
looking for the perfect man!